Pregnancy is the starting of a new era in a woman’s life. In the way of making a family, it is one of the stages of a relationship. When a human is born, not only a baby is born, but also a mother is born. But women face many kinds of problems in pregnancy. Some problems are physical and some are psychological or mental which affects the relationship with your husband/spouse. Today we will talk about one of the most important topics, and it is, relationship problems in pregnancy and solutions to them.
What Type of Problems Do People Face?
Relationships between husband and wife are one of the sweetest relationships of the universe. Couples are so much dreamy about the time of their pregnancy. But usually, they forget or ignore the most important problem what they can face during pregnancy period. This problem can be termed as, “Unusual Behavior Problem”. The most interesting part of this problem is it can come from both of the sides. This problem can come from your husbands perspective and can affect you. On the other hand, this problems can come from your side and can affect your husband. But mostly it comes from the females.
Unusual Behavior Problem In Women
Due to physical, financial and social changes women experience emotional changes during pregnancy. Abnormal emotions are a normal and necessary part of preparing to become a parent.
Women feel too much anxiety and pressure at this time. This is one of the biggest relationship problems in pregnancy. They often think their husbands have changed. They feel this from an insecurity. Feeling insecure is one of another huge relationship problems in pregnancy. Women usually blame their physical change for this. Women think they are not enough protected, their circumstances are not normal anymore. So that they try to be more protective of their baby. This is not an unusual behaviour. If you read the book “SAPIENS” then you will understand that. From the beginning of the evaluation human and other animals faced too much rush environment. Protecting their baby became very natural instinct for them. May we advance too much but that animal behaviour and memories of environmental risk still exist among us. So that naturally women become more protective in this situations.
They do not understand that they are doing too much and what they are afraid of do not exist anymore. In this period women want to stay in their favourable environment like mother’s home or somewhere she can feel safe. In the Indian subcontinent, husbands do not usually try to understand this kind of situations. They should understand the fact and should handle smoothly.
Women would like to stay alone or separated in this time. They want to create a barrier around them. Cheerful people around them in this time can help to develop their confidence.
Unusual Behavior Problem In Men
Do not know why men also start behaving differently in this time. Every man should be regular with his spouse in this time. But due to some unknown reasons, men start to come home late/reduce communication with their spouses. You should keep it in mind that at this time your wife is feeling everything differently. Maybe you are a late comer always but your wife did not notice that. But due to that, you can not come home late now. Your wife will take it in another way. It’s not her fault. Nature made her like that. You have to understand that in this time the psychology of your wife should be different. She will get normal after the birth. You should act like a responsible man in this time. Sometime she will do too much, I know but you should stay calm. I don’t care what you are facing throughout the day or hows going your life. If you took her responsibility during the marriage and she is going to be the mother of your child. She is carrying your child in her womb & taking the pain because she wants to bring your duplicate in this world. She is doing so much and will do so much in future for this child. But you can not tolerate her rough behaviour for only 10 months? You will not be a moron if you do not go to your friends hang out for 10 months.
Some Bastards still do exist
It is not guaranteed that all the men are thinking in the same way. If you are unlucky enough and choose the wrong man to get engaged then the upcoming situation is going to ruin your life.
There are some people who are really attracted to the beauty and outlook only. If your spouse is one of them then definitely he is going to leave you at the time of your pregnancy. Do you know why? Not because you have a big belly and looks ugly. He is not able to take the responsibility of a child. He may promise you several times that he is the responsible one but trust me if he is a beauty lover, he is going to be crushed when the responsibilities will come. So better choose the right man, does not matter he is handsome or not.
Some Women Culprits
Oh! no only the men are not the one who got furnished at the time of his spouse’s pregnancy. The women have a lot of factors to be disturbed other than that.
In this time women stay so anxious that some neighbour influences can crush your family. Some people face the ugly situations at the time of pregnancy and they give you some “FREE SUGGESTIONS” which is nothing but bullshit. If you listen to them then yourself is enough to ruin your relationship.