Pregnancy is the starting of a new era in a woman’s life. In the way of making a family, it is one of the stages of a relationship. When a human is born, not only a baby is born, but also a mother is born. But women face many kinds of problems in pregnancy. Some problems are physical and some are psychological or mental which affects the relationship with your husband/spouse. Today we will talk about one of the most important topics, and it is, relationship problems in pregnancy and solutions to them.
Relationships between husband and wife are one of the sweetest relationships of the universe. Couples are so much dreamy about the time of their pregnancy. But usually, they forget or ignore the most important problem what they can face during pregnancy period. This problem can be termed as, “Unusual Behavior Problem”. The most interesting part of this problem is it can come from both of the sides. This problem can come from your husbands perspective and can affect you. On the other hand, this problems can come from your side and can affect your husband. But mostly it comes from the females.
Unusual Behavior Problem In Women:
Due to physical, financial and social changes women experience emotional changes during pregnancy. Abnormal emotions are a normal and necessary part of preparing to become a parent.
Women feel too much anxiety and pressure at this time. This is one of the biggest relationship problems in pregnancy. They often think their husbands have changed. They feel this from an insecurity. Feeling insecure is one of another huge relationship problems in pregnancy. Women usually blame their physical change for this. Women think they are not enough protected, their circumstances are not normal anymore. So that they try to be more protective of their baby. This is not an unusual behavior. If you read the book “SAPIENS” then you will understand that. From the beginning of the evaluation human and other animals faced too much rush environment. Protecting their baby became very natural instinct for them. May we advance too much but that animal behavior and memories of environmental risk still exist among us. So that naturally women become more protective in this situations.
They do not understand that they are doing too much and what they are afraid of do not exist anymore. In this period women want to stay in their favorable environment like mother’s home or somewhere she can feel safe. In the Indian subcontinent, husbands do not usually try to understand this kind of situations. They should understand the fact and should handle smoothly.
Women would like to stay alone or separated in this time. They want to create a barrier around them. Cheerful people around them in this time can help to develop their confidence.
Unusual Behavior Problem In Men:
Do not know why men also start behaving differently in this time. Every man should be regular with his spouse in this time. But due to some unknown reasons, men start to come home late/reduce communication with their spouses. You should keep it in mind that at this time your wife is feeling everything differently. Maybe you are a late comer always but your wife did not notice that. But due to that, you can not come home late now. Your wife will take it in another way. It’s not her fault. Nature made her like that. You have to understand that in this time the psychology of your wife should be different. She will get normal after the birth. You should act like a responsible man in this time. Sometime she will do too much, I know but you should stay calm. I don’t care what you are facing throughout the day or hows going your life. If you took her responsibility during the marriage and she is going to be the mother of your child. She is carrying your child in her womb & taking the pain because she wants to bring your duplicate in this world. She is doing so much and will do so much in future for this child. But you can not tolerate her rough behavior for only 10 months? You will not be a moron if you do not go to your friends hang out for 10 months.